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Hi Friend

There's still a few copies left...

http://emotional-healing-guide.com/EHQSG.pdf

But that's not why I'm writing you today.

Instead, I want to talk about how counter-productive it is
to avoid 'negative' people.

Huh?

But... EVERYBODY says avoid negative people!

What's the real answer?

Glad you asked...


It seems almost a cliche'.

"Avoid negative people. Eliminate them from your life!
They'll only bring you down. One bad apple..."

On the surface, it seems like good advice. We all want to
feel good. Happy. Successful.

How can you feel good if you're around someone who's
miserable? Just get away from them! What a simple solution.

Too bad it doesn't work.

Another cliche' - which is much more than a saying - is
that we are all one. Certainly, we're all one consciousness.
There is no separation of consciousness. Not really.
It only seems that way cause we're living in a duality.

Consciousness is one. With many different expressions.

What really happens when I try to separate myself from an
expression of consciousness I don't like?

Many things. None of them helpful. At the very least,
I'm giving my power away.

"I'm not powerful enough to be around this other person.
They're more powerful than me."

I'm telling my subconscious I'm not powerful. I'm giving
away my power. I'm telling my subconscious that so-called
'negativity' is more powerful than MY - ahem - so-called
'goodness'.

You're automatically making judgments that may or not be
true. Is misery really more powerful that goodness? Do
I really need to avoid... run-away... separate myself -
from ANYthing?

Here's why the notion of avoiding negative people NEVER
works:

You have a certain resonance. A frequency of vibration.
Your resonance naturally attracts the people, places, and
things that MOST MATCH your resonance.

It's impossible to 'avoid' anything. Either you attract
it in your life - by your resonance - or you don't.
Pushing away an unpleasant 'form' (someone you're judging)
will simply cause the form to bounce back. Either the
same person, or another person with a similar resonance,
will soon be back in your life.

The tricky/unknown part:

What is your resonance? And how can you change it so you
DO naturally attract into your life those things you say
you want? While simultaneously NOT attracting those things
you say you DON'T want?

Your resonance is made up of many different components.
Most are not easily under your control. For example, the
main components of your resonance come from your unconscious
mind.

However, there is one easy and effective way to start
working on your resonance right now. By working with
your thoughts and feelings in a very specific way.

Don't seek to avoid so-called negative people. It's much
wiser to seek them out. But only if you do it with this
one goal in mind. Here's what you do:

Work with how YOU feel (and what YOU think) when you are
around the person you look down upon. If you will truly
and honestly look at YOUR emotions - perhaps to process
them by writing them down - or simply to feel them cleanly...
it's like a SHORT CUT to changing your resonance.

It can quickly and effectively change YOU.

Here's the trick: if you don't cleanly process your emotions,
things will stay the same. Same judgments. Same pity.
Same frustrations. Etc. Nothing will change. You'll be on
an endless cycle - feeling the exact same feelings over and
over.

That's how you KNOW whether or not you're processing your
emotions cleanly.

Perhaps the easiest way to process: write down those
thoughts and feelings that come up when you're around
this 'lesser' person. Write them down today. Write
them down tomorrow. And the next day.

Even if you don't believe you can cleanly think and feel,
you can ALWAYS take pen to paper. It's the absolute easiest
way to get to the point of cleanly processing your emotions.
Which may be the best way to raise your resonance.

Because it allows you to release the trapped emotions that
are part of your present resonance. Release the trapped
emotions, and YOU change. Instantly.

Then, either the other person will leave... or they will
change... or, it simply won't bother you anymore. And by
focusing on what repels you - it's like taking a short cut
to improving YOURSELF.

Otherwise, you can spend the rest of your life trying to
push away from what you're 'too good' to experience.

Think about it. You can accelerate your own personal growth
by seeking out those people whom you judge. They're only
reflecting what you deny in yourself. There's only one
consciousness. In many forms.

Don't forget to thank them.

all the best

Mark


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