Friend - developing personal depth
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Developing Personal Depth Everyone seeks personal depth to one
degree or another. Personal depth stands as *the* way to add
richness and a beautiful complexity to our lives. Consider, for
example - the use of a self- improvement technique. If you’re
familiar with such things, you may have noticed that over time, the
effectiveness of any technique has a tendency to diminish. The
technique that works wonders at first seems to not work as well a
few months later. Why the change? Is it luck? Is it karma? Or
perhaps it has something to do with those massive solar flares
being spewed off from the sun? No, it’s merely a lack of our own
personal depth. Nobody wants to be a shallow person. Still, the
concept of becoming a ‘deep’ person turns many people off. We have
this image of a deep person as someone who spends a little too much
time stroking his beard and smoking his pipe. Lost in thought way
beyond us mere mortals. They ponder too much. They’re smarter than
us. They go to the opera -and actually know what the fat lady is
singing about! They’re just not normal. Fortunately, personal depth
exists as something else altogether. To achieve greater personal
depth (and not coincidently, greater success at anything you
pursue) involves taking specific actions. You can achieve greater
personal depth starting today by working with the seven
characteristics listed below. 1. Develop and use the generating
energies of trust and value. Trust: Even though you don’t have all
the answers, you know you’ll get by. You’re ‘enough‘ and you know
it. You can count on yourself. You can rely on your power, strength
and talent. Whatever happens you know you can face it: you know
you’ll make it. Even though it may not be perfect, you’ll handle
the situation at hand ‘good enough’. That’s trust. Value: You might
not be highly visible in the world, but the role you play in life
*is* highly valuable. You know you are valuable in your way - to
yourself and to those who love you. Also, you recognize, respond
and act upon your value. 2. Develop and use the sustaining energies
of life such as discipline and ownership. The discipline that’s
self-imposed. You decide on something and then you *follow
through*. You follow your own plan, your own rules - that’s
discipline. Ownership: Own your thoughts and feelings. Own your
emotions. Own your failures - so you can change them. Own that
you’re responsible. And own your successes - so you can keep them.
Ownership gives you the right to change. 3. Continuously create new
meaning, destiny, personality, and self-image. The person with
personal depth never settles for the way they are. They may be
satisfied, but they always seek to become more. More meaning in
their life. Higher destiny. Greater complexity of personality. And
new self-image. 4. Develop and strengthen character. Character: By
knowing your ideals and your principles, and living by them…. by
having ideas and opinions and standing by them…. That’s how you
build character and thus increase your personal depth. 5.
Continuous expansion of your power, strength, responsibility and
creativity. You look for ways to be more powerful; to act, to get
involved in the world around you. You look for ways to take more
responsibility from the most minute to the most magnificent. You
know your strengths and look for ways to use them. You work on
expanding your creativity. (Creativity is anything you do that
inspires you or inspires others.) Just taking a walk can be
creative! 6. Sustained actualization. You’re in touch with your
thoughts and feelings, and you’re not afraid to put them into
action. You always think and feel. You’re aware of that thinking
and feeling. And you act upon those thoughts and feelings. 7.
Generating spirituality. You don’t have to separate yourself from
the mundane of life to experience your spirituality. Rather, you
seek the spiritual *within* the material. Your spirituality becomes
your number one priority. You come to realize everything you
experience is a manifestation of your spirituality. There is no
separation between the spiritual and the living of life - that’s
the goal of the person seeking or having personal depth. As you can
see, personal depth is not something you check off on a to-do list.
Let’s see… walk the dog, take out the trash, and oh yeah - achieve
personal depth. No. It’s an ongoing, never-ending, always-expanding
endeavor. Basically it all comes down to becoming more of yourself.
You can always experience greater personal depth. There are no
limits, and that’s the good news. For more information on working
with emotions and developing personal depth, grab your copy of the
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