[Dating Decoded] How To Get The Date! - Phone tips

December 3rd, 2009 at 3:38 pm
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How to Get the Date!  Phone Tips

Usually getting her on the phone is a sign that she will make a date with you. However every once in a while a woman will be noncommital.

My method on the phone is something like this:

ME: It was cool meeting you the other day, let's grab coffee or a drink on Wed. (statement not a ?)
Her: Well. um. I'm actually busy on Wed.
ME: No worries, let's grab a coffee Monday next week then.
Her: Uh, I'm kinda busy monday too.
ME: Ok, then it's your turn. You pick a day.

If after that she still is noncommittal, I would probably say something like: "That's cool, it was was nice chatting with you in the bookstore. If you want to grab coffee or a drink sometime I'd like that. Let me know when your free OR maybe I'll just bump into you again in the future."

Putting it on the line is important. If i've done the above progression she will usually pick a time or tell me to check in with her next week before the call is over. A woman who answers but doesn't commit to a date on the phone is conflicted. You can't change that.

Often it is because she has a boyfriend. Try to get information before the first date in the future. On the phone after getting a number is ok too.

 

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Dating Mistakes: How Long To Wait To Call?
 

From The Movie Swingers

Mike: So how long do I wait to call?
Trent: A day.
Mike: Tomorrow.
Sue: Tomorrow, then a day.
Trent: Yeah.
Mike: So two days?
Trent: Yeah, I guess you could call it that, two days.
Sue: Definitely, two days is like industry standard.
Trent: You know I used to wait two days to call anybody, but now it's like everyone in town waits two days. So I think three days is kind of money. What do you think?
Sue: Yeah, but two's enough not to look anxious.
Trent: Yeah, two's enough not to look anxious. But I think three days is kind of money. You know because you...
Trent: You know what. Ha ha ha Mike, laugh all you want but if you call too soon you might scare off a nice baby who's ready to party.
Mike: Well how long are you guys gonna wait to call your babies?
Trent, Sue: Six days.

The classic dilemma, how long do I wait before I call a girl...

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