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May 16 , 2005
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In This Issue:


You, Too, Can be a Salesperson - By C. J. Hayden, MCC

The Truth about Web Site Statistics - By Daryl Toor

Do you believe what you are thinking? - By Jeff Glaze

Mediation: Safeguard Your Business Against Loss -
By Dina Beach Lynch

Greetings from Jeff and Auf Wiederspam!

Until this weekend I wasn't getting enough spam. So someone in Germany decide to steal 2 email addresses from my web site and send me some more! Thanks! The worst part of this is that the spammers are using the old technique of not only getting email to send to, but you may get spam from my email address as well because they are "spoofing" the senders address. This means that they send you unlimited email and then use your address to send the email from! Let me just say I do not speak German, I am not sending those emails!

I attended two major seminars here in Atlanta last week. First was the Brian Tracy sales seminar, then the next day was Tony Robbins - Recorded live. I will be writing a review next week for Tony. I should be pretty powerful now after those 2 days so if you see me at a meeting, be careful, I may accidentally sell you something!

As always, some good articles this week, and in case I forgot to remind you.... be sure to plan to attend the Atlanta Business Mixer this week. (see below). Remember, the day has been moved to the third Thursday because of the Memorial Day holiday. We had over 150 people attend in April, it is time for you to stop in and meet the crowd.

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You, Too, Can be a Salesperson

By C. J. Hayden, MCC



 

I am not a sales and marketing guru. I've written two books on marketing and taught thousands of people how to sell themselves, but really, I don't know more about sales and marketing than most of you.

What I know how to do is talk to people, all kinds of people -- restaurant owners and waiters, CEO's and receptionists, entrepreneurs and kindergarten teachers. I don't try to sell these people anything; we just have a conversation. But sales happen as a result.

In my book "Get Clients Now!" I define marketing as telling people what you do over and over. That's part of the secret right there. I've seen too many business owners fail because they simply don't speak up about their business. Or else they tell someone once what they do for a living, and then think they never need to mention it again.

But there's another piece of the sales and marketing puzzle that often gets left out. When you talk to someone about your business, you need to be direct, authentic, and unattached to the outcome.

Clients and students often ask me questions like, "What do I say when I call Mr. Big to find out if he's ready to buy?" They're shocked when they hear my answer: "Hello, Mr. Big, have you decided to purchase our product?"

Or maybe the question is how to follow up with someone you met at last night's event who expressed some interest in your service. My suggestion is to say: "When we spoke last night, you seemed interested in my services, and I'd like to continue our conversation."

What do you do when you fear that the client doubts your qualifications? How about: "You seem a bit unsure of my qualifications to do the job, and I'd like to address that. What are your concerns?"

These are all conversations. You ask a question; they answer. They ask a question; you answer. It's like a friendly tennis match -- all you have to do is keep the ball in the air, and nothing is at stake.

But that's the catch, isn't it? You think there's a lot at stake. What if you don't get the contract, the client, the money? So you make the conversation overly significant, put on your marketing face and your selling voice, speak someone else's words... and the result is anything but direct and authentic.

What impact does this have on the person you're speaking with? The opposite of a direct approach is an indirect one: devious, underhanded, sneaky (check your thesaurus). The opposite of authentic is inauthentic: phony, fraudulent, insincere. Isn't this exactly what you have always been afraid of -- sounding like a used car salesman or telemarketer reading a script?

Scripts are for rehearsals. In a meeting or on the phone, keep some talking points in front of you, but don't read. Every word should be one you would use in normal conversation -- use instead of utilize; fix instead of rectify; help instead of facilitate. Get to the point quickly, and tell the truth about it. "I'm just calling to introduce myself," is not only an ineffective approach, it's a lie.

Show a sincere interest in people by asking questions about their goals and problems. When you see a place where your business can help, don't hesitate to say so. Be respectful of people's time and really listen to what they say. Respond to what you heard instead of continuing to the next item on your agenda. Don't be afraid to toot your own horn while staying true to who you are.

But these are just tips for changing your behavior. The real key is in your attitude. If you can recognize that being indirect, inauthentic, or attached to the outcome is causing you to lose sales instead of make them, you'll have a powerful incentive to do things differently.

C. J. Hayden is the author of Get Clients NOW! Thousands of business owners and salespeople have used her simple sales and marketing system to double or triple their income. Get a free copy of "Five Secrets to Finding All the Clients You'll Ever Need" at getclientsnow.com

 

   
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The Truth about Web Site Statistics

By Daryl Toor


 

 

Web analytics are growing more sophisticated. We're developing methods to measure media, understand customers, predict trends and assess return on investment (ROI). What no one is telling you is that all these systems and numbers are based on flawed statistics.Web analysis is based on counting a very limited number of things. People visit websites and read pages.

Therefore we can count people, visits and page views. That's all. In counting people, visits and page views, it's important to understand how accurate we can be about them. The bad news is that we can't assess any of these with perfect accuracy. Inaccuracies are unavoidable, caused by the nature of Internet technology itself.

We Can't Precisely Count Visitors

It's not possible to count people on the web. People don't visit web sites. Their computers do. So, web statistics are counting the number of visits from a computer, not from a person. How does Web analytics software determine visits and visitors?Every computer uses an operating system and browser. The combination is the "user agent". Every computer also has an Internet protocol (IP) address, expressed in a format that looks like this: 63.236.64.164. In Web analytics software, the standard method for identifying a unique visitor is to combine the User Agent and IP address. In theory, combining the full User Agent with the IP address produces a unique identity. But this identification methodology is far from accurate. For example, every single person inside the Ford corporation has the same IP address. They all go onto the web from the same gateway in Detroit (even the 88,000 employees in Europe).

Corporations hide internal IP addresses for valid security reasons. Most people in Ford have the same browser and operating system (what Ford calls the Global Client). Thus, according to standard identification procedures, more than 320,000 people are the same unique visitor. This will hold true for any corporation with shared Internet access and a common standard for their workstations. On the reverse side, many Internet service providers will assign a different IP address every time a home user or small business connects to the web. This means the same visitor will look like a different person on every visit — throwing off counts of unique visitors.

"Cookies", an identifying file placed on your computer by Web sites you visit, can help improve the accuracy of visitor identification. However, multiple family members often use the home computer and some people block or remove cookies from their computers. Studies indicate that between three and five percent of all visitors block session cookies and many more delete stored cookie files. The more "techie" the visitor, the more likely they'll avoid being counted. What all of this means is that you're probably only getting about 90 percent accuracy with identification of unique visitors. Not bad, but not perfect, and certainly more valuable than no Web analytics at all.

So, in making business decisions based on Web analytics, you must always take into account a potential 10% error factor in your statistics.

We Can't Precisely Count Duration

Most Web analytics are also inaccurate concerning duration of visit.When someone is visiting your site, they click on a link to retrieve a webpage. Then later they click on another link to retrieve another one. Web analytics software measures the duration between the two clicks as the time spent reading the page. Add all these durations up and you've got the total time of the visit.This creates a problem for one-page visits. Since there is no second page, we can't calculate a page duration. Officially a one-page visit is not a visit; it has to be two pages to count as a visit. Some Web analytics software packages won't count the zero duration one-page visits when they determine average visit duration, but you'd be surprised how many do — producing flawed duration statistics.

In most cases, no duration can be calculated for the last page a visitor reads because there is no second click. As a result, web analytics software is under-reporting the time people spend on your site, because it can't tell how long someone spends on the last page. Or, if someone starts reading a page, then minimizes it for 10 minutes to work on something else before maximizing it to further review the page content, the clock keeps counting throughout the time it is open — thereby overstating actual eyes-on-page duration.

We Can't Precisely Count Visits

A Web visit is usually defined as a series of page requests with a gap of no more than 30 minutes between each one. If someone asks for a page 31 minutes after the preceding page, it is usually counted as a new visit. But page views often exceed 30 minutes, especially on pages with complex products like mortgages, insurance and other financial products.On the other hand, what if someone views your site, goes off and compares it with a competitor, then returns after 20 minutes? That still counts as part of the same visit. Technically it constitutes a single visit of two sessions, but almost no one differentiates sessions and visits. These examples illustrate the inherent inaccuracies when visit counts are based on an arbitrary selection of 30 minutes as the magic number. For most purposes this is fine, so long as you accept it is as a reasonably accurate, workable but flawed number, not a precise measurement of visits.

Log Analysis Issues

Many Web site owners use log analysis to get their stats. Log analysis is much less accurate than page-based tracking. Here's why: Spiders and Robots Search engine spiders automatically read your site and so do performance monitoring software packages. Typically, the automated search engine spiders rapidly read every page of the Web site, and thereby dramatically increase the number of page views. Since search engines go through pages at a rate of one per second, their rapid fire "reading" reduces average visit duration and average page read time. Most log analysis software doesn't distinguish between page requests by humans and page requests by automated robots. If you don't account for the activity of spiders within your Web site, you are not getting an accurate picture of usage by human visitors. It is likely that you have fewer human visitors than you think and that the average duration of a visit is longer than your web analytics software is reporting to you.

Most Web site owners believe the average visit duration to a website is three to four minutes and the average page duration is about 30 seconds. In reality it's about twice those lengths.

SWF Files

SWF files are flash files. Without getting into the details, flash files are a problem for log analysis. If you've got flash files as both full pages and as page elements, then it's unlikely you're getting accurate stats from log analysis.

Caching and Cache busting

Most browsers store a copy of each webpage you read. If you hit the back button the browser serves you that page instead of bothering to ask the server for another copy. Log analysis misses this because the server never saw the second viewing. Saving pages like this is called "caching."It isn't just browsers that cache. Corporate gateways cache commonly requested pages to save time and bandwidth. Internet Service Providers (ISPs) may cache for the same reasons.It is estimated that uncounted cached pages reduce the reported number of page views and advertising impressions by about 30%.So, if you're using log analysis for your stats, you're missing about one-third of your activity.

Wake Turbulence

Many people exit a site by repeatedly clicking their back button. Log analysis doesn't pick this up (because it doesn't record cached pages), but page-based tracking does. This means many visits end with a series of one or two-second page views in reverse order from the first half. This activity increases the average number of page views per visitor and reduces the average page duration. There's no official term for this, but I call it "wake turbulence." Most analysis tools don't even recognize this problem, let alone deal with it — and there seems to be no practical way at the present time to compensate for it.

User Resistance

Some of your visitors don't trust you. Some major-name Web analytics and tracking systems are listed as spyware and blocked. Some people block cookies. Some people clean out their cookies regularly. If you are tracking repeat visitor behavior with cookies you have to accept some degree of inaccuracy as people block or remove them. Transversal Losses - Transversal is what you do when you click a hyperlink — you transverse from one page to the next. Sometimes people click on a link but never arrive at the other end. Browsers crash; people change their mind, and so on. This is becoming a source of contention in pay-per-click (PPC) advertising. The user clicks on the ad, but doesn't get through. Because of this phenomenon, Google often charges for more visits than Web logs show — sometimes by as much as 25 percent or so. Google believes this is a minor and rare problem, but many PPC advertisers are not so sure. This problem is not unique to Google. It occurs to a greater or lesser degree with all forms of inter-site link activity. This means that return-on-investment calculations for PPC advertising and affiliate marketing cannot be perfectly accurate, and need to permit a margin of error.

Conclusions

At the present time, absolute precision is impossible in Web analytics. You have to accept a degree of fuzziness around your stats for visit duration, number of pages read and average page read time. The inaccuracies are an inevitable consequence of the nature of Internet technology, not because analytics software is shoddy. This level of inaccuracy is acceptable for the time being as long as users of analytics software don't make business decisions based on small statistical differences. It is important to understand and accept that visitor stats are accurate plus or minus five or even 10 percent. In general, people are probably spending a little longer on your site, or maybe a little less depending on the content of your pages. To protect against these inaccuracies, it's important to add a margin of error to financial and ROI calculations.In fact, exact numbers shouldn't matter too much. Trends do.

Effective Web analysis, therefore, should focus not on the raw numbers, but on the trends over time. Individual numbers may be inaccurate but trends tell the story.We have to accept that web analytics software is in its infancy. Compared with five years ago, we can do great things with web analytics software today, but we have only just begun. Life's full of uncertainties and web analytics is no different. Somehow we all manage to get by.

Daryl Toor, APR, is both chief awareness officer of Attention, which helps companies attract attention that builds awareness and generate new business. He also is the president of MercuryMessages™ a strategic email marketing service consultancy and distribution provider. He is the author of “Get The Word Out! ? Marketing to Attract New Business”, and is a recognized expert on public relations, marketing messaging, email marketing, search engine optimization and sales lead management.

 


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Do you believe what you are thinking?

By Jeff Glaze





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  Do you believe what you are thinking? Of course you do!

As we go through our lives we have thousands of thoughts a day. They may be related to the tasks we are doing or are going to do, our personal lives, or even something as simple as "Am I hungry?". As we have these thoughts, do we take the time to direct what we are thinking about, or does our mind take control and think about what ever it feels like thinking about?

I have been observing people around me lately whom I am close to and I am finding out some interesting things about perception and belief versus reality.

For example, today appears to be a sunny, beautiful day. If you are in a good mood today, you might agree that it is a wonderful day. That good mood is generated by the thoughts you are having at the moment regarding your surroundings, your experiences, and the things that are going on around and inside you.

If you are currently experiencing emotions such as grief, anger, depression, or the like, you may argue that it is indeed not a beautiful day, it is for you a crappy day. It may be a crappy day for you, so intensely that you can not really SEE the sunshine and excitement around you. What is it that makes us believe such things? The power of our mind is so strong that it literally creates reality for us regardless of what the truth is.

Let me give you an example.

Were you ever in a relationship where you suspected that the other person might be somewhat less than faithful? If you thought that this was the case, you may have experienced a heightened awareness of the things that this other person did or said. In this heightened awareness, you may have looked for cues that according to what you knew were indicators of another person being less than faithful.

As you focused more and more on the possibility that this could be happening, you may have found yourself accusing the other person of doing things that were not even remotely true or could possibly be so. Thoughts related to this come from our surroundings and often from the influence of others. If you were to watch a television show that outlined the behavior of a cheating spouse and your spouse then exhibited one or more of these behaviors, you might begin to think that your spouse is having an affair.

These thoughts would then begin to control how you treated the other person, leading you into a spiral of accusations and suspicion that left unchecked could destroy your relationship. Your spouse could be completely innocent. but as you continue to accuse and badger them, you in effect drive them away from you thus causing them to react in a negative way arousing more suspicion.

This is the power of our thoughts. What we focus on, what we believe, ultimately becomes our reality. It is often a reality for us that no one can see except for the outward appearance that it creates in our body language and facial expressions.

When we experience strong feelings that may not be the truth, it begins to be true if only for us. Thus our thoughts have the ability to create our reality.

Our body is not who we are. It is the spirit inside of the body made up of thoughts, feelings and emotions, that creates the actions of the body that define who we are. By getting control of our mind, we can ultimately become anyone that we wish to.

If this is true, why are more people not successful? It is because control of the mind is a very difficult process of mastering what we think and how we react at any given moment. Gaining this type of control can be a painful experience as we wrestle with though patterns that have been formed over the course of our very lives, all of which have been influenced by our personal experiences.

This discourse can go on for a very long time, so I will close by suggesting that anything which we are experiencing in our lives can be changed simply by changing thought processes. We must admit to ourselves that we can not control what others think, but we can influence what they think based on how we interact with them. As our thoughts change so does our reality.

There have been many books written on this topic, but the most effective techniques I have been exposed to are compiled by Anthony Robbins. After attending a day of his 4 day weekend, a lot of the things that I believe regarding the human condition were verified. The principles that he teaches are universal and are referenced by other motivational speakers. He just does a great job of teaching people how to fix themselves. If they decide to listen and take action.

Jeff Glaze is the editor of AtlantaEvent.com and President of Mostcool Media, Inc.
 
     
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Mediation: Safeguard Your Business Against Loss

By Dina Beach Lynch

 

Got a spare $100K? That's the average cost to defend against a lawsuit today. It's a staggering sum, and one that could literally bankrupt a company. What can you do to protect your business?

Use Mediation to safeguard yourself from difficult clients and sticky issues.

How to avoid Litigation

You know the old joke where the patient says, "Doc, it hurts when I do this" and the doctor replies "so, don't do that". Well, the best way to eliminate litigation expenses is to avoid litigation. Take proactive steps to solve issues before clients feel compelled to call a lawyer.


Taking Proactive Steps

This is America and everyone has the right to sue, but there are ways to avoid or reduce your litigation exposure. Below are three strategies to resolve issues before getting to the courthouse steps.

1. Educate your clients.

Educate your clients on your value to them and how to best do business with you. Instruct them verbally and in writing about how to express disappointment. Doing so, gives everyone involve a clear protocol to follow and thereby lessens misunderstandings. . It also demonstrates that you and your business have integrity and are willing to work together with clients to meet everyone's needs and interests.


2. Include Mediation Clauses

A mediation clause is the part of a contract that invites all parties to use mediation as the principal means for resolving conflict. Clients may wrongly assume that litigation is the first step to getting satisfaction without some education and a mediation clause.

Mediation clauses are similar to the arbitration clauses you find in many commercial contracts today like credit card agreements. Unlike arbitration, mediation is more informal and affordable.

3. Try Mediation

Mediation is a forward looking process that brings the parties in dispute together. Disputants talk, question and create their own solutions helped by the facilitation of a mediator, the neutral third party. A mediator can be very useful in cases when conversations turn sour and parties feel 'stuck'.

Mediation is particularly beneficial for small businesses because the fees are significantly less than litigation and arbitration. Most mediators charge between $150-400 per hour and most mediations conclude within 10 hours or less ( Compare that to lawyer fees.)

Mediation also helps preserve your relationship with your client. You learn more about them, their values and needs, and they learn about you. I've mediated business disputes where the parties actually increased the business dealings because the process was so successful. Moreover, because parties move from being positional to exploring a range of suitable options, it's very likely the solution produced will be less financial and more creative.

 

Dina Beach Lynch is a Mediator who specializes in workplace conflict. Dina founded WorkWellTogether.com, a website that coaches managers to resolve workplace conflicts.

Since 1991, Dina has served on the panels of the CPR Dispute Resolution Panels of Distinguished Neutrals; the U.S. Postal Service REDRESS I Mediation Panel and others. She has led conflict workshops for major corporations like Coca Cola Enterprises, Fleet Bank, Millipore, and The Rockefeller Foundation. Get her monthly ezine, Peace at Work, Here. If you're interested in learning more about mediation or how to resolve client disputes, visit, workwelltogether.com.

 
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